How far in advance should you order a men's wedding ring?
Ideally, start looking around two to three months before your wedding.
That doesn't mean your ring will take three months to make. Most Lord Coconut made-to-order men's wedding rings currently require approximately three weeks to be made and posted by the individual Australian jeweller.
But there's a fairly important difference between "the jeweller needs approximately three weeks" and "I'll order my wedding ring exactly three weeks before the ceremony."
The second option leaves very little room for choosing the ring, confirming your size, delivery or dealing with anything unexpected.
Your wedding already has enough deadlines. Your wedding ring doesn't need to become another emergency.
When should I start looking for a men's wedding ring?
Around two to three months before the wedding is a sensible starting point for most people.
That gives you time to work out what you actually want rather than buying whatever can arrive fastest.
You can compare materials, widths, finishes and prices, decide whether you want something traditional or contemporary, confirm your ring size and then allow the jeweller time to make the ring.
If you're planning something personalised or custom-made, starting even earlier is sensible.
You can begin by browsing Lord Coconut's Australian-made men's wedding rings to get a feel for the materials and designs available.
How long does a handmade men's wedding ring take to make?
Most Lord Coconut wedding rings are handmade to order by individual Australian jewellers rather than pulled from a warehouse shelf.
For most of the current range, you should allow approximately three weeks for the ring to be made and posted.
That's an important distinction.
When you order a ring in your size, somebody actually has to make it.
That process can involve preparing the metal, forming the ring, soldering or joining components, adding texture, setting stones, engraving, finishing and checking the completed piece.
The exact process depends on the ring.
That's one of the pleasures of buying handmade jewellery but it also means Amazon-style "order tonight, wear tomorrow" expectations aren't particularly useful.
Why shouldn't I just order three weeks before my wedding?
Because three weeks is the approximate making time, not a recommended wedding-planning deadline.
You also need to consider:
- choosing the actual ring
- confirming your ring size
- discussing any changes or personalisation
- the jeweller's current workload
- the handmade production process
- posting and delivery
- having enough time to deal with an unexpected problem
If everything goes perfectly, ordering at the last minute might work.
Weddings, however, have a remarkable ability to demonstrate why contingency time exists.
Giving yourself an extra few weeks removes a completely unnecessary source of stress.
Does a personalised wedding ring take longer?
It can.
Personalisation may require information from you before the jeweller can begin.
A particularly good example is the Coast 8mm Sterling Silver Men's Ring by Australian jeweller Danielle Sweeney.
The ring is handmade in sterling silver and hand engraved with a coastline chosen by you. That coastline can be almost anywhere in the world, somewhere you met, proposed, married, honeymooned, grew up or simply somewhere that matters.
It's a wedding ring with an actual connection to your story rather than a generic pattern chosen from a catalogue.
And because you're involved in choosing the coastline, it's another good reason not to leave the decision until the last minute.
Coast 8mm Sterling Silver Men's Ring by Danielle Sweeney
What about a custom men's wedding ring?
A custom ring is different again.
If you're asking a jeweller to alter an existing design substantially or create something specifically for you, allow more time.
Lord Coconut recommends allowing approximately three to five weeks for custom orders, depending on their complexity.
But again, that's the making process.
Before that can happen there may be discussions about design, materials, price, size and what's technically possible.
If you know you want a custom wedding ring, we'd suggest beginning the conversation several months before your wedding rather than waiting until the final few weeks.
When should I get my finger measured?
Before you place the order.
It sounds obvious, but ring size isn't something worth guessing.
Finger size can vary slightly with temperature and other factors, and the width of the ring can also influence how it feels on your hand.
If possible, have your finger professionally measured.
If you need to measure remotely, a ring size chart is available HERE.
Getting this sorted early means you're not trying to solve the sizing question while the jeweller is waiting to start your ring.
Does the width of the wedding ring matter when ordering?
Yes.
A wide ring can feel quite different from a narrow ring, even when they're nominally the same finger size.
That's one reason we recommend deciding roughly what width you want before finalising your size.
If you're still deciding between something understated and something much bolder, our guide What Width Should a Men's Wedding Ring Be? explains the differences.
A 3–4mm wedding ring can be quite understated.
An 8mm ring says you're happy to rock the wedding ring and own it.
They're very different things to have sitting on your finger every day.
Can a handmade wedding ring still be simple?
Of course.
Made to order doesn't have to mean elaborate.
The Low Dome Men's Ring by Australian jeweller Aimee Sutanto is a good example.
It's handmade in sterling silver with a dark blue Australian sapphire and has a smooth, low-profile form. It's understated enough for everyday wear but has just enough detail to stop it becoming another anonymous silver band.
Like the Coast ring, it's made to order in the customer's selected ring size and currently requires approximately three weeks to be made and posted.
Low Dome Men's Ring in Sterling Silver & Australian Sapphire by Aimee Sutanto
What if my wedding is only a month away?
Don't panic but don't keep putting it off either.
Contact Lord Coconut before ordering and ask about the particular ring you're considering.
Approximately three weeks is the standard making time for most current made-to-order rings, but availability and circumstances can vary.
It's much better to have the conversation and find out what's realistically possible than to order something and simply hope the timing works. We can aslo speed up the order process if the jeweller has time in their making schedule.
What if my wedding is only a couple of weeks away?
Talk to us.
At that point, don't assume a handmade made-to-order ring can be completed in time.
There may be options depending on the ring, jeweller, your size and the wedding date, but this needs to be checked individually.
And please tell us the actual wedding date.
"Urgent" can mean anything from next Saturday to three months away.
Should I order early if my wedding is overseas?
Definitely.
If you're travelling for the wedding, work backwards from the date you're leaving Australia not the ceremony date.
You want the ring safely on your finger or in your luggage before you head to the airport.
International customers should also allow additional time for overseas delivery and local customs arrangements.
There is very little romance in tracking your wedding ring through a postal system while you're sitting in another country waiting to get married.
Can I order my wedding ring too early?
Within reason, no.
You probably don't need to order it two years ahead simply because you've booked the venue.
But ordering a few months ahead is hardly a problem.
The main thing to remember is that your finger size can change over long periods, so make sure your size is accurate when you actually place the order.
Once the ring arrives, try it on and make sure you're happy with the fit rather than putting the unopened parcel in a cupboard until the wedding morning.
What happens if the ring doesn't fit?
That depends on the material and construction.
Many gold and sterling silver rings can potentially be resized, but not every design can be altered easily. Materials including titanium, Damascus steel and zirconium generally cannot be resized.
We've covered that separately in Can a Men's Wedding Ring Be Resized?
It's another reason to get the sizing right and leave yourself some breathing room before the ceremony.
A simple men's wedding ring timeline
If you want a straightforward approach, we'd suggest this:
Two to three months before the wedding: start seriously looking at rings, materials, styles and budget.
Six to eight weeks before: know which ring you want and confirm your ring size. If you're considering personalisation or custom work, ideally have those conversations underway already.
At least three weeks before: don't treat this as your target ordering date. Treat it as the approximate standard making time for many Lord Coconut rings.
Once the ring arrives: try it on immediately and make sure you're happy with the fit.
Wedding day: put ring on finger. Have drink. Congratulations.
So, how far in advance should you order a men's wedding ring?
For most people, starting the process around two to three months before the wedding gives you a comfortable amount of time.
Most Lord Coconut made-to-order wedding rings currently require approximately three weeks to be made and posted, while more involved custom work can take longer.
Starting earlier gives you time to choose properly, confirm your size and allow the Australian jeweller to make the ring without turning the final weeks before your wedding into a race against the postman.
You're planning to wear the thing for decades.
Giving yourself a couple of months to choose it doesn't seem excessive.
Explore Lord Coconut's Australian-made men's wedding rings, or contact Lord Coconut if your wedding date is approaching and you'd like to check the timing for a particular ring.
Frequently asked questions
How far in advance should I order a men's wedding ring?
Ideally, start looking around two to three months before your wedding. Most Lord Coconut made-to-order rings currently require approximately three weeks to be made and posted, but starting earlier gives you time for choosing, sizing and delivery.
How long does a handmade men's wedding ring take to make?
Most current Lord Coconut made-to-order rings require approximately three weeks to be made and posted by the individual Australian jeweller.
Is three weeks enough time to order a wedding ring?
Three weeks is the approximate making time for many Lord Coconut rings, not the ideal amount of time to leave before your wedding. Ordering earlier provides a sensible buffer for sizing, making and delivery.
How long does a custom wedding ring take?
Lord Coconut custom orders can take approximately three to five weeks depending on complexity, and you should also allow time beforehand to discuss the design, materials, size and quote.
What if my wedding is less than a month away?
Contact Lord Coconut before ordering. Some rings may still be possible depending on the design, jeweller, your size and exact wedding date, but timing should be confirmed first.
When should I order my wedding ring if I'm getting married overseas?
Work backwards from your departure date rather than your wedding date. Allow enough time for the ring to be made, posted, delivered and checked before you leave Australia.
Should I try my wedding ring on when it arrives?
Yes. Try it on as soon as it arrives so you can confirm you're happy with the fit rather than discovering a problem on your wedding day.
I don't know my ring size. How can I find it?
A ring size chart is available HERE. Professional measurement is also worthwhile, particularly if you're choosing a wider wedding ring.